You don't need another pep talk. You need someone to hold up the mirror and help you face what you've been avoiding. I help men stop doing shit they don't want to do—and start building lives they actually want.
"It takes an enormous amount of courage to face the demons inside, where all demons live."
I'm a former IT consultant turned men's coach, published author, and podcaster. For thirty years, I ran from my problems through alcohol, women, and status symbols.
Two DUIs, a divorce, a near-death bike accident, and countless toxic relationships later—I got the message.
Now I help men who are stuck in the same patterns. Not by giving you motivation. By helping you face the truth you've been avoiding.
My approach is direct, sometimes uncomfortable, and always honest. If you're ready to do the work, I'm ready to help.
Twelve Steps to Embracing Common Sense and Rejecting Stupidity
My memoir and framework for breaking free from self-destructive patterns. Raw, honest, and unflinching—like the coaching itself. Now available on Amazon.
Get the Book →Intensive individual work for men ready to break free from patterns that have held them back. We dig into the root causes—not just symptoms. 12-week program minimum.
Structured accountability for men who need someone in their corner but not full coaching. Weekly calls, daily check-ins, and someone who'll call you on your bullshit.
Self-paced program based on the 12 Steps from my book. Work through the material at your own pace with community support and monthly group calls.
Numbing is the problem. Feeling is the solution.
Blame is a cage. Ownership is freedom.
Comfort lies. Honesty hurts. Then it heals.
Embrace the suck. Make friends with the pain.
Stop running from what you already know.
Failure isn't a setback. It's data.
Real conversations about what men actually go through. No fluff, no toxic positivity—just honest talk about the hard stuff.
If you're tired of running in circles, let's have a conversation. Fill out the form below and I'll reach out within 48 hours.
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